Я выбираю счастье. Заметки оптимиста

Мир – это зеркало, в котором отражаемся мы сами! Стоит успокоиться, расслабиться, «навести порядок в голове», улыбнуться – и мир вокруг проясняется и начинает улыбаться нам!

Полюбить себя = полюбить жизнь!

Счастья вам и любви!

Loving Yourself

Dear friends, have you ever heard anyone say, «One should love themselves»/ «Just love yourself»?

I am a very down-to earth person, which always made me think, «What does it mean to love oneself?»

You can say whatever you want! And what exactly do you do when you love yourself? Kiss yourself? Hug yourself? Look in the mirror admiringly? Consider yourself and your own interests to be more important than the others? Eat delicacies all day? Wear expensive clothes and surround yourself by luxury? Those and million other questions arose in my mind.

Looking for an answer to such a topical question that it was for me, I have read many books and listened to wise people, which made me come to the following answer.

To love yourself means to:

• Accept yourself the way you are, with all of your peculiarities!

• Forgive yourself for any mistakes and make conclusions about them!

• Speak only good about yourself!

• Forgive your «offenders»! For in the end they always teach us something.

• Have a pure and beautiful vocabulary, throw swear words out of your head! Be good, kind and polite whenever you can.

• Every day smile to yourself, to people, and keep smiling in general.

• Keep fit!

How to get rid of depression, apathy, gloom and boredom? Walking or jogging, roller-skating or cycling, skiing or skating etc., off you go to a gym, to a swimming pool, to a park!

Make your wishes and thoughts your top priority. Your heart will never lie!

• Wish good to everyone, and it will return to you like a boomerang!

• Remember that everyone has the right for their mistakes, for life is school! If anyone tries to seek a speck in your eye, should remove the beam from their own first!

I liked very much a so-called «Divinity Test».

– fill a bathtub with water;

– climb into it;

– check if you can walk on water!

If you can’t, it means you’re not GOD! So you have the right for a mistake.

• Dream but remember that dreams tend to come true! So one should dream about good things that are not harmful for people around you.